We all set goals and hence we all do well in life. Having an eye for looking for an opportunity to succeed further and then sometimes when you are unable to do anything but just wait as things go beyond our control and you don’t know how to get past it.
You sometimes might feel lost and alone, but you should not stop fighting as “YOU ARE STRONG enough to start again”. You want people to tell your story as an example of a true fighter who overcame every hurdle by keeping going as life still goes on even if you don’t.
Everyone needs to learn to handle their ups and downs, joy and pain. The sooner we learn to handle it the better for us. There are so many of us who share the same path of similar struggles and ask the same questions.
Our life choices and desires are always based on our weakness or strengths. We all have choices. We can choose darkness or choose to fight back.
Have you ever thought about:
- How many goals have you achieved and how many have you failed?
- Have you bragged about your successful goals the same way you bragged about your failed ones?
- How do you feel about yourself?
- Do you love yourself?
- Do you believe in yourself or do you believe more in what people say about you?
- Would you confidently say that you are proud of yourself?
If not, it’s time to change that thing that just came to your mind right now. Answering these questions would let you dig deep inside you. It is exhausting and will be painful making you unhappy. But it will be worth answering these questions as it would be an eye opener.
Face it, Accept it with broad arms instead of resending it and feeling heartbroken. You know you can fix it. Let go!
Remember who you used to be and the dreams you had. They are right where you left them as they are waiting for you to find them back again.
Let’s start writing new chapters in our lives by bringing the best version of yourself and rewrite the story of who you are and what you can do.
Nobody knows what you can do but only you know, what you can accomplish or what you are capable of.
Let me share a little piece of my journey with you all. I had my share of ups and downs and my share of the merry-go-rounds which I had to fight and win in the battles of my life journeys so far. What changed my life was when I gave birth to my son and honestly my kids gave me a new way to look at life. They made me realise what the real world was all about. The way I think, the way I question myself, the way I love myself or see love, the way I see what is right or wrong in fact every small detail as I want their life to be awesome and unless my life is good that’s not achievable. Kids are great observers and are constantly learning from you. They are like a blank sheet of paper ready to take colours on. Hence, I had no choice but to fix up the loose ends. To do this, I had to look into my past and reflect back and see what could be done for the future to be much brighter and better. And now I can proudly say that I am the best version of myself.
I wish you all the best and believe you will achieve your best version soon.
Neeti Jata